Thursday, April 12, 2012

When The World Is Against You

Mistakes. Failures. Successes.
We all have them. But it is also up to us, how we take it.
Choices. Decisions. Consequences.
When we choose how we'd take it, we'll make a decision. And that decision will determine the following consequences.
Is there ever a sane person in this world that wants bad things to happen to them?
I don't think so. At least, not a person in his/her right mind.

Not that I'm a busybody,
but I've realized- noticed, actually - how many people there are in this world that go through depression.
And no, not depression on the superficial level, but as in really REALLY deep inside.
Not just hating yourself for being ugly and not being able to do anything about it,
but wanting to just take your life away, trying every single damn time, but not being able to take it away because you're afraid. Or maybe you're just worried that your parents won't feel too good about your absence.
Living everyday, walking out in the streets, afraid to live. Afraid to look at people in the eye, afraid to voice out, afraid to show how you really feel.

And it slowly gets worse,
you start off with cutting yourself: with blades and knives and all that sharp things.
Every where.
Your wrists, arms, legs, feet, upper body... and it never stops.
Its a conflict like that.
Not being able to die, but not wanting to live either.

Then one day, the poor girl or guy would sit there and think:
how did I get so far into this depression in the first place?

Right.

Because the world is against me.

I would like to create awareness against bullying/ excessive teasing/insulting.
Sure, for some people who assume that they are more superior than others,
it might be interesting. Or fun even, to torture people like that.
Some might even laugh it off like it was all in a day's work in the end.
But. Have they ever thought of the consequences that would come from the decisions they have made?

In a long term, have they ever thought that they would end up taking someone's life simply because of words like...
You're ugly.
You're stupid.
You're so invisible.
F*ck off, LOSER.
Wimp.
Slut.
Piece of sh*t.
You're better off DEAD.

No. They don't.
They tease or bully because they like it.
Which, in my opinion, is very very VERY wrong.
Why must you make a person's life difficult?
Don't you know that we were all created with our own talents that differ from the rest?
How can you call a person an outcast and a loser just because they can't do the things you can?
Who knows? If your talent wasn't in trend, YOU might have been the one being shunned.
You might have been the one afraid to go to school everyday.

Even if you're not particularly interested in showering these poor people with sugar-like compliments,
at least don't bully them.
And if they annoy the heck out of you naturally,
stay away from them.
Don't even think of getting close to them.

What's your problem anyway? What if people did the same to you?
What if you were in their shoes?
Would you like feeling suicidal everyday because of the people whom you thought were your friends dissed you and physically abuse you?

Didn't think so.

And as for the other side of the party,
you can't lose easily. You can't give up.
No matter what people think or say about you, there's no denying that you ARE equally capable in being pretty, smart, athletic, artistic.. anything you wanna be.
If you're weak, you'll fall into this horrid 'depression' thing easily.
It isn't a nice experience.. from what I've seen and heard.
So stay strong.
And always believe in yourself :)

Once again, I'd like to thank God. For everything that he's done for each and everyone of us.
Its sad that some of us lose our faith easily, and fall into self-hurting, drowning in our own sorrows, and keeping our head hung low, when we can actually obtain success so easily, if only we believe and trust in ourselves, family, true friends, and God.
So let's all work together to make this world a better place for us to live in :)
Let's start by saying nice things to others, offering help whenever possible, smile more often, and stop bullying.

Yours truly,
Rachox.

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